How to Develop Christ-like Motives
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Becoming a Spiritual Adult

Have you ever heard yourself saying one of these lines?

  • “I don’t know if I can teach that Sunday School class she asked me to teach.”

  • “I don’t really like sixth grade boys.”

  • “I hate to say no to Shirley. She’s been so good to me.”

  • “How will I ever find the time?”

  • “What will everyone think if I say no?”

  • “It’s not like I am going to get anything out of it.”

  • “But shouldn’t I do it for God? You know: WWJD?”

  • “What about Tom? He’d be great!”

  • “Lord, how am I to decide?”

When we read Scripture, it’s easy to think Paul, for instance, was so spiritual and we are so not and lose heart. The next step is to say there is nothing we can do because we are not as spiritually strong as Paul—especially when you read a passage like this. “Content in every state!” Yikes!  “I’m maybe never gonna' get there!”  So we become demotivated and stall spiritually.  

But let’s look again at key words from Paul's letter to the Philippians. Let’s retitle them:  Paul’s Principles for becoming a Spiritual Adult (like Paul). Let’s look at some thought patterns that lead to spiritual heights. No, we may never be “Paul” but God didn’t call us to be someone else. We already possess all we need to become spiritual giants. It’s a lot in how we look at our spiritual goals and our motivations.  

Paul doesn’t begin with our doing anything. Paul reminds us that God is responsible for our spiritual growth. We just cooperate.

1 – “…he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus”  (1:6).  Get this: God has a vision of good works he wants to accomplish in and through us. He has already begun equipping us for our contribution to the kingdom.

Before we have anything to offer others, God must work in us, purifying and tweaking our thought patterns and our world view.  

God’s idea of completion in Scripture is that of wholeness. Holiness and wholeness were synonymous in the Old Testament. Remember the lambs for offerings—they had to be whole and without blemish. So God is in the process of  erasing our ‘old tapes’ and replacing them with God’s  words of love and acceptance. God wants us to view the world and ourselves from God’s perspective. We are deeply loved sinners, whom Christ came to restore. Thus, we are all in the process of being reprogrammed—with God’s ideas. God is restoring and God will make something wonderful. He always does. So what might completion—or spiritual maturity look like?  

Paul prays for the Philippians that their:

2- “…their love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight . . .” (1:9).

Interesting that Paul didn’t begin with works but with love. Why love?  Because love is the center of the Christian life—God’s love for us, our love for God, ourselves and others.  (Read  the rest of verses 9-11). Paul certainly makes it sound like love precedes knowledge  More love produces more knowledge and depth of insight.  Knowing Paul, love for God is the first implication. Love for God increases knowledge of God—how might that happen? Love for God would mean spending more time with God. Spending more time with God would lead to knowing God, not about God. Knowledge of God need not include love for God. Remember Paul’s life before the fall from his horse? (Acts 9)  The more I know of God, the more I want to know. And the more I want to know, the more time I spend getting to know God. No shortcuts. But the promise of large chunks of time with God is ‘more knowledge and depth of insight’. Boy, do I need that!  

One result of ‘depth of insight’ is how we view the world and our relation to it.

3 – “…what has happened to me has really served to advance the gospel”   (1:12).

Remember where Paul is? In jail. That’s some insight. ‘Yeah, I’m in jail but that doesn’t matter because it’s all good for the Gospel.”  Okay, so God hasn’t called us to jail but  translate this into everyday language. Try out this principle in your life: “It’s not about me. What’s really important is God’s reputation and God’s plans.” What about not getting my way in that board meeting or not having to win that argument with my spouse?   A major sign of spiritual maturity is being able to choose what is best for the kingdom, even at a disadvantage to myself. Am I promoting my own kingdom or God’s?  

Paul helps us with how promote God’s kingdom:

4 – "Because of my chains… others have been encouraged"  (1:13-14).

  Paul possessed an amazing ability to see God in ordinary, even dire, circumstances. Paul knew God so well that his focus was not on his circumstances. He was constantly scanning the scene looking for Christ in every event and conversation. We need to cultivate this habit of paying attention to God’s surprising appearances in ordinary events. God appears many times a day in a word of encouragement, a rainbow, a word from scripture that seems written just for you and a sense of God’s presence. Paul’s motivation was always that God be seen and heard.  

Another sign of spiritual maturity is Paul’s ability to be charitable and gracious.

5 - "What does it matter? The important thing is that in every way… Christ is preached" ( 1:18 ).

Paul was not tempted by jealousy of others preaching Christ. He was so focused on Christ that it consumes all his attention. He did not get caught up in petty arguments. A helpful practice for us to ask: Will this matter in eternity? Will it even matter next month?  Focus not on who is elected to which committee or who said what. Practice saying  to yourself: “If it doesn’t matter in eternity then I won’t care now.”  Then move on.  (Whose kingdom am I serving?)  

6 – “…whether by life or by death” (1:20).  

Paul has faced death so many times he can now hold it lightly. Or is he  more focused on heaven than on life on earth?  John Eldredge quotes Peter Kreeft on heaven in The Sacred Romance:

“Pathetic modern substitutes of fluffy clouds, sexless cherubs, harps and halos presided over by stuffy divine Chairman of the Bored are a joke, not a glory.” Paul’s picture of heaven is obviously, dramatically different to inspire him to choose death over life. We forget about heaven completely for weeks on end. Perhaps if we thought more about heaven, we could  hold events here lightly, giving them less importance (that eternal question again).  

7 “…I desire to depart and be with Christ” (1:23 ).

 Paul sees heaven as desirable—to be face to face with Jesus, at last.  Paul’s life is clearly more absorbed with Christ than anything this world can offer.  What if our life motivation was simply Christ? How, then, would we spend our time and money? And on whom?  

 8 – “I will continue with all of you for your progress and joy in the faith” ( 1:25)

  Paul amazes me that he can be so other-oriented in jail (for the Gospel!). Another motivation seen in the mature is the ability to think of others during their own trials. It must be practiced but it IS possible to become other-oriented.  

9 – “Whatever happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel...” (1:27).  

The context of this passage is one of standing firm despite what others  think. Recently I heard Eugene Peterson speak and a major emphasis was that the Gospel was never relevant and we are meant to be relevant now. Forget the media messages. Forget being politically correct and live your life motivated by the words of Jesus.  

10- “…without being frightened in any way by those who oppose you.” (1:28).

Few of us fear backlash from living a Christian life. (Maybe we should!) Cultural translation: Whose approval do you live for? Designer labels, being kissable—or  worse, driving a Lexus, having the latest ________ = our culture’s pressure to demotivate us from living out of godly motivations. Why do we care so much what a mere mortal thinks and brush aside our tender, lover-God?  

11 – “…since you are going through the same struggle….” (1:30).

Paul does not live in some spiritual euphoria and minimize struggles. Paul encourages us to embrace suffering when God calls us to suffer for the Gospel. Our culture tells us to avoid pain at all costs—but what if God calls you to care and to pray for the poor and the lost? What then is to be our motivation?  

The secret of Paul’s spiritual maturity is his focus—Paul has one motivation only: Christ. Developing Christlike motives comes from focusing on Christ. What would Christ want done in this situation? What words would glorify Christ?  

Spiritual maturity is the ability to move beyond myself as the center of the universe. “Forgive me Lord for the thing I’ve made it [worship], when it’s all about you, Jesus”   says a modern chorus. But that’s it—it’s all about Jesus—my life, my plans, my time are all about YOU, Jesus.  Paul got it. Do we?